Ready For Love?
Ready For Love?
Get you a plant and take care of it, pet a goldfish, and then try to find you a human; train yourself to love.
An interesting concept about love is its very definition. "I love working out", "I love my wife", "I love a strong cappuccino." 3 different subjects but one word to describe how you feel about something, interesting! Like happiness, love doesn't have a graph, it cannot be objectified; I regret to inform you that not even one definition is capable of fully explaining it.
Love resides right where the heart neither rushes nor it slows down, it is an equilibrium of emotions. However, it is not anything near perfection, it'll always be subjective, always individual and usually there won't be an objective measurement except one, how whole it makes you feel? Not over or under-fed, just enough to make you feel content. I know, easier said than understood, it'll make sense eventually though. Why rush?
Love does need effort, it depends on you whether you want to prepare yourself for it or remain in the cycle of disappointments.
To assess whether you are ready for it, by yourself a plant, make space for it, water it, give it the sun, learn how much it needs what you assume it requires and then nourish it accordingly. Analyze your level of commitment and dedication to it. You'll observe how every plant has individual needs, not all need the attention of the sun or yourself and hence, everything that you know about love will start indicating why you give up or why you stay, what patterns you see in your relationship and so much more.
In peace,
Mary Pervaiz
Love is a fluctuating situation for example, you sometime love yourself more, sometime less and at times you might hate yourself. Similarly, the people or things that are around you no matter how much effort you put, you can never love them always. Sometime you ll like or love them more, at other time less or may not even like or could be irritating as well. Now, this doesn't mean that you don't love them it is just that the love can never be something which is constant and people need to understand this.
ReplyDeleteOh how I wish, we were taught this along with A B and C.
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